McGregor Lounge
Cigar Lounge Etiquette
I can vividly recall walking into Nat Sherman's in New York City for the first time - the sights, the smells, the people. I remember being hesitant, not because I was fearful, but because I wasn't sure of the norms in a cigar shop or lounge. While I've made more than a few visits to cigar stores since, it still can be a bit tricky to feel out the vibe in any given place. Add to that the difficulties with some states and provinces allowing smoking in cigar lounges and others not. So I was pleased to come across this list of 11 universal points of etiquette for entering a cigar lounge or shop. While you should be able to tell if smoking is OK in a given lounge/shop, it doesn't hurt to ask first. This list is meant for smoking-approved lounges, but much of the thoughts carry over.
1. Don't be a "conversation snatcher"
If you walk into a lounge where a conversation is taking place, don't try to change it. You can wait for an appropriate time to weigh in and participate, but there's nothing worse than a newcomer who disrupts a discussion about politics or the economy with some unrelated remark about the Mets' bullpen.
2. Mine's better
Cigar smoking is a matter of taste - whether you prefer an Avo Campanero or a cognac-dipped novelty stick. "Real" cigar smokers may not touch the latter, but not everyone chooses to be "real." And, why should they? Realize that people gravitate to what they like, with cigars or anything else. Leave room for those around you to enjoy what they choose.
3. Know your audience
When I asked the guys around me about cigar etiquette, two gave variations of "keep it clean." Sitting down and regaling the crowd with the previous night's sexual conquests in lurid detail, for example, may not be appropriate. If you float a controversial topic and it doesn't resonate, let it go. Trying to force it will not work in your favor. Likewise, if you find a crowd comparing their evenings in a way that doesn't sit well with you, realize that you're the outsider - and that this crowd may not be the right one for you.
4. Talk on the phone ... somewhere else
Cell phones are now a part of life. Given enough people and enough time, you're bound to hear a few of them ring. Answering the phone isn't a big deal, just have the decency to take your call away from the lounge. Move to the back of the store, or step outside for a minute.
5. Don't tell people how to smoke
Cigar smokers have their habits - right or wrong. You'll irritate the hell out of somebody by telling him he cuts his cigar too low, shouldn't bite the cap or isn't lighting his cigar appropriately. Some are open to the advice, others not. If you decide to become a cigar educator, be ready for a chilly reception.
6. Buy from the shop where you're smoking
This shouldn't even need to be said, but there's always an element that shows no respect for the establishment. Retailers don't have great profit margins, and when you bring a cigar into a shop from the outside, you are taking money from the store. If you like having a place to smoke, support it.
7. Let the staff members do their jobs
Cigar shops are social centers, and this does include the staff. You can't help but get to know your "cigar guy," or "cigar gal" and you'll come to enjoy talking to them. But, when the smoke shop's employees are with customers, unloading boxes or otherwise working, let them be. The first priority is the job, and you need to respect that.
8. Be aware of the line behind you
A good tobacconist won't rush you or show impatience, so don't challenge him to try. If you don't know what you want, stand out of the way while you look around - especially if there's a line forming behind you. Nothing is worse than hearing, "I came in last year and bought a cigar, do you remember what it was?" if you see a waiting crowd behind you, let them take care of their purchases while you find your way through the maze.
9. Don't take over the TV
The TV's are there for everyone's enjoyment. It is just bad manners to start changing the channels when the lounge has several patrons in it. If you really want to watch something ask the employees and they will make sure that it is ok to change the station with the other customers.
10. The lounge is for Luxury Tobacco users
The primary function of the lounge is a place for Cigar and Pipe smokers to relax. No, I really do not care if someone smokes cigarettes and sits in the lounge area, but when the lounge is crowded, please move to the bar/table area.
11. Have fun
The lounge is there for your enjoyment. In order for everyone to have a good time manners is the word of the day. I think we have proven that having a good time comes in many forms, enjoying a good cigar or pipe is one of the better ones.
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